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Moving... and relationship hoo ha.

February 8th, 2007 at 03:08 am

I managed to only spend 15 cents today... all on containers. But that's not too bad. I found 4 cents on the floor in the University Cafe. I packed both my lunch and dinner.

Me and BF are moving into a larger apartment in April. We've found a few places to look at, and honestly I'm incredibly nervous right now. We've been going through some problems and I feel like I need to resolve them before we put a security deposit down. Either that, or find an alternative [separate] living space. I've been thinking a LOT. Most likely more than I should, but nonetheless I've come to some very interesting and unfortunate conclusions. I'm not happy. More specifically, I'm not happy with my relationship. I think we need to take some time apart to be independent and become friends again. Things have become much too superficial.

The problem with this is that it is going to cost quite a bit more. No split rent, etc. I was considering moving into a dorm if it came down to it, but I dont think I could do that. A kitchen of my own is a must. Of course, this is all just an idea and there is a big possibility that we wont move separately. I'm just trying to be prepared.

I've got a lot to think-- and talk-- about regarding all this. In the meantime, I'm trying to truck on with my school work and not let all this on my mind get in my way. I keep telling myself that we can work through it. I've talked to both of my best friends, who both love him and they're rooting for us. I am too. But when I talked to a new friend who has never met him, he suggested maybe taking a break. I've been thinking about it. We'll see. I think there's a certain value to a 3rd party opinion. but once again, only time can tell now... Everyone have a great night!

2 Responses to “Moving... and relationship hoo ha.”

  1. boomeyers Says:
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    Well, from your blog, he's seems to treat you very well and you love his family, right? It sounds like he really supported you when you were mugged.
    But honey, you are soooo young and there is lots of living to do before you "settle down"......
    Good luck and keep us posted!

  2. LuckyRobin Says:
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    You've talked to 3 different people, but have you talked to him? Because that is really where you need to go.

    And also, is it possible new male friend might be suggesting a break because he is interested in you being more than a friend?

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