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October 11th, 2015 at 05:42 pm

So last night I ended up going over to our friend's house with DH for poker night. He gave me a quick crash course on how to play before we left, and it ended up being a good time. Given that it was my first time, I didn't do terribly well - but it was only a $10 buy-in and I enjoyed it. He didn't end up winning either, but hey. Entertainment for $10/person isn't so bad. And he fronted the money.

We haven't mixed our finances yet, so we're still in the mindset that it's "his" and "my" money. I know that will change as soon as we get things going. Still waiting for our marriage license to come back from the probate court so I can embark on the exciting adventure of changing my name, replacing IDs, and then opening a joint account together. I think we may be meeting with a financial adviser. We have one in my BNI group, and it seems like a good way to kick off on the right foot. But it'll be an interesting transition. DH makes a LOT more money than I do, and I often worry about feeling like I'm not pulling my weight. Or it coming off that way. Now that we're married, the "team" mentality hasn't quite sunk in. Though I'm sure that's something that comes with time.

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Today DH went off with friends to watch football. I stayed behind to edit photos. This week is going to be busy busy busy, as I've got a couple of deadlines to meet and two days I'm taking off work during the week.

I was going to cook dinner tonight, but we have so much leftover from yesterday's dinner that I think we'll just do that, and I'll cook tomorrow when I'm not attempting to edit a few thousand photos.

I also want to celebrate some tiny victories. Friends asked me to go to the mall a few times this week and I declined. I've also done a lot of online consignment shopping, and have yet to make a purchase. Just looking for a new winter coat. I've had my eye on one for over a year now, but it's about $300. I know I can score a better deal, but I still want to invest in something that I love and will last.

Thankfully, we have a bit of time before it becomes urgent. So we'll see. My coat from last year is still functional and we'll be living in a warmer climate next year. So maybe I'll go with something cute and much cheaper and hold off on the big coat investment until we move back. At any rate, I'm rambling now.

Hope you all have a lovely Sunday!!

3 Responses to “Sunday Update”

  1. rob62521 Says:
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    Sorry you didn't have beginner's luck at poker, but you enjoyed yourself so that is worth something!

  2. snafu Says:
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    With a plan to move to a warmer climate, would you consider wearing your existing winter coat one more year but adding a new neck warmer, scarf or shawl for a different look?

    https://www.google.ca/search?q=neck+warmers,+shawls+winter+2015&espv=2&biw=911&bih=379&tbm=isch&tbo=u&source=univ&sa=X&ved=0CDYQsARqFQoTCMqo2c-nu8gCFRcliAod59cJSg&dpr=1.5

  3. VS_ozgirl Says:
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    Your DH might make a lot more money than you but don't think of it like you're not pulling your weight - there are plenty of ways that you can add value to his life that aren't financial. As long as you're both happy, that's all that matters Smile

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