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Car is drivable, and relationship hooplah.

January 5th, 2010 at 02:03 pm

So the car is for the most part fixed. The power steering pump has been replaced and coolant has been put into it (though it needs more, and we also need to find out where it's leaking). So there's that... Thankfully the pseudo-BF helped me out and saved me quite a bit of cash. Eventually going to have to replace the spark plugs and fix that leak, wherever it is... ugh.

Didn't spend any money yesterday, so that makes one no-spend day for the week Smile Today I'm thinking I'm going to go get temp plates for my car again, so I can drive it legally. Then take the steps to get it to pass E-check-- starting with those spark plugs.

Going to a free kickboxing class tonight. I was going to go yesterday, but my friend made plans forgetting... heh. Oooh well. No plans for this week, so it was fine. I have 2 other nights filled, hanging out with my buddy the one. The other I'm having coffee with the ex... that's going to be rough.

My love life, per usual, is a hot mess. The current sort-of BF is doing the same thing he's been doing for a year now... failing to make a commitment. As well as holding back from our relationship. I dont see the point in loving someone half-a**edly. It's all or nothing. I deserve that. So if he decides he cant put everything into it, I think it's single time for this girl.

He says he wants me to be "single," yet I know he still expects me to be there when he's ready. I dont find that fair. We're either together or we're not. I cant be single and still clinging on to us.

Sorry for the rant, but I had to get it out there Smile Alrighty. Off to work. I hope everyone has a great day!

4 Responses to “Car is drivable, and relationship hooplah.”

  1. Broken Arrow Says:
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    It's always interesting to read from the female perspective on things. Thanks for sharing.

  2. gamecock43 Says:
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    I agree that if he is not giving you what you want, cut him loose. You cant find the right man when you are with the wrong one.

  3. frugaltexan Says:
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    I'm with gamecock. It's better to say goodbye and move on with your life.

  4. whitestripe Says:
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    I agree. When I was still in school I was 'sort of with' a guy like that. Eventually I convinced myself to move on and it was possibly the best thing I've ever done for myself.

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