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October 5th, 2015 at 09:10 pm

Here we are again... another one of those times that I disappear from this site for months and come back in desperate need of getting my s#!t together...

So a lot has happened since May. I turned 29 (woo!). Wedding season began, and with it my busiest time of year. Also, I got married just last month (double woo!). And now finally things are calming down. Well, now I'm playing catchup following all of that craziness... but soon! Soon things will be very calm. And now they are calm enough now for me to look around and freak out a bit. Because things are a bit rough, at least financially.

In the midst of the wedding craziness, I was spending much more than I should - on the wedding itself, and then on restaurant meals (because we hardly cooked from August through September), and also on two different trips I took over the summer. One, granted, was for work - so I have some write-offs there at least... but still. Not cheap.

But mostly I'm freaking out a little because things ARE going to be calm here soon, and while that's great for my sanity... it's not as great for my bank account. And I have bills (and taxes!) to pay.

I've started looking things over, getting a feel for where I'm actually at right now, what I need to make up, and brainstorming ways to get more bookings through the winter so I'm not set up for failure. I've also put myself on a very serious spending ban.

And that's just to get me up to speed. Soon, we'll get our marriage license back, open a joint account, and start figuring out what our finances are going to look like as a married couple. Which we talked about prior to actually getting married - we just have to actually put it all into practice and hammer out the details.

And on top of that, we're moving out of state in just 7 short months. And there's a lot of prep that needs to go into that so... things will remain quite interesting!

Given all of these details, I really need to make my budget a priority. And getting on SA regularly to record my updates is a great way of doing that. I just have to hold myself accountable. So here I am. Ready to get this party started!

6 Responses to “Back (Again)”

  1. VS_ozgirl Says:
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    Congratulations on getting married! Good luck with your financial goals!

  2. creditcardfree Says:
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    Congratulations on your marriage. Moving is expensive too, so that might help you keep things under a tight reign as well.

  3. Petunia 100 Says:
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    Congratulations to you and your new spouse! Smile
    Looking forward to reading your updates.

  4. snafu Says:
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    Wow! lots done, lots upcoming lots to plan. Congratulations on wedding, big, new step forward. Happy to be your line of support to get finances under control and make ideas turn into facts.

  5. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    You've got a lot on your plate! It's good that your stepping back to look and see what needs to be done.

    Congrats on getting married!

  6. Debt-free by Thir-ty Says:
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    Congrats on the marriage and your upcoming move! Lots of new, exciting things to look forward too. I look forward to following your posts again since we're pretty similar. I'm about to turn 29 and am currently planning my own wedding Smile

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